The Cross: A Divine Model for Marital Love

The Cross: A Divine Model for Marital Love

‘Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,’

Ephesians 5:25

 

In Ephesians 5:25, husbands are instructed to love their wives as Christ loved the church, sacrificially giving Himself. This verse sets the standard for men for marital love—selfless, unwavering, and sacrificial. Christ’s love for the church was not based on merit (anything that mankind did) but on commitment (willing to die for mankind, to pay the ultimate price for their sins to reconcile mankind back to Himself), transcending imperfections (Christ went to the cross for all mankind despite our sins). Similarly, husbands are called to cherish their wives beyond flaws and imperfections, displaying a love that imitates Christ’s unconditional devotion. In doing so, marriage becomes a reflection of the divine relationship between Christ and the church when husbands extend sacrificial love. It’s a commitment to uplift, support, and always strive for the greater good of one’s spouse above all. This Christ-like love is an embodiment of grace, forgiveness, and constant devotion. As husbands embrace this high calling, marriages become a testimony to the redemptive and transformative power of the gospel.

 

Husbands, let Ephesians 5:25 encourage you to pursue a love that mirrors Christ’s love for His church, creating a home filled with the heart-transforming and enduring love of Christ.

 

Additional reading:

 

These verses collectively emphasize the central theme of selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional love as exemplified by Christ, applicable not only in marital relationships but also in our interactions with others.

 

1. John 13:34-35

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this, all will know that you are My disciples if you have love for one another.”

 

2. 1 John 3:16

“By this, we know love, because He laid down His life for us. And we also ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.”

 

3. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7

“Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”

 

4. Colossians 3:19

Husbands, love your wives and do not be bitter toward them.”

 

5. Matthew 22:39

“And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.'”

 

 

 

Walking Worthy of Our Calling – Ephesians 4:1 & 2

Walking Worthy of Our Calling – Ephesians 4:1 & 2

‘I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you to walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love, ‘

Ephesians 4:1-2

 

Ephesians 4:1-2 beckons us to walk worthy of our calling (our salvation and all that comes with it) in Christ. This is speaking of our great salvation and beyond—it’s about our new life transformed by the power of the gospel and how we now live moving forward. As Christ opened our hearts to His love, our response is to exemplify it through humility, gentleness, and patience with all mankind. Our lives should echo the transformative power of the Gospel in our relationships. Let love be the hallmark of our testimony—love for fellow believers and compassionate love that reaches the unsaved. In walking worthy, we showcase Christ’s redemptive work and mirror His love to a world in desperate need of it. As ambassadors for Christ, may we strive to be worthy of our calling, epitomizing the gospel through our unwavering love for others.

 

‘Now then, we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God were pleading through us: we implore you on Christ’s behalf, be reconciled to God. ‘

II Corinthians 5:20

 

 

 

God Separated Israel from the Gentiles “His Inheritance”

God Separated Israel from the Gentiles “His Inheritance”

This compilation of Bible verses clearly shows God’s choice of Israel as His special people and their separation from the Gentile nations. These verses span the Old Testament, including Deuteronomy, Leviticus, Exodus, 1 Kings, Psalms, and Isaiah. They highlight Israel’s distinct identity as being chosen by God, separated from other nations, and designated as God’s special treasure and inheritance. The emphasis on Israel’s unique status is evident in the passages, affirming the biblical truth that God has chosen the nation of Israel as His own.

 

‘When the Most High divided their inheritance to the nations, When He separated the sons of Adam, He set the boundaries of the peoples According to the number of the children of Israel.’

Deuteronomy 32:8

 

The nation of Israel and the Jewish people remain the apple of His eye, but today, and since around 70 AD, they have been blinded (Romans 11:25) to the benefit of the whole world (Romans 11). Ultimately, they rejected Jesus as their Messiah, and along with the Romans (Gentiles), they crucified Jesus. God has committed the whole nation to disobedience so that He can pour out His mercy and grace upon all mankind.

 

Romans 11:32 captures this profound truth:

“For God has committed them all to disobedience, that He might have mercy on all.”

 

Although Israel’s present condition involves a spiritual veil, the unchanging nature of God assures us that He remains true to His promises. The covenantal commitments made to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, as well as the nation of Israel, will, without a doubt, find their complete fulfillment in the unwavering faithfulness of God, who remains constant throughout time—today, tomorrow, and forever.

 

Here are a few Bible verses that highlight God’s choice of the nation of Israel as His own and their separation from the Gentile world:

 

Chosen as a Special People:

 

Deuteronomy 7:6:

“For you are a holy people to the Lord your God; the Lord your God has chosen you to be a people for Himself, a special treasure above all the peoples on the face of the earth.”

 

Separated from the Nations:

 

Leviticus 20:24:

“But I have said to you, ‘You shall inherit their land, and I will give it to you to possess, a land flowing with milk and honey.’ I am the Lord your God, who has separated you from the peoples.”

 

Distinct Identity:

 

Exodus 33:16:

“For how then will it be known that Your people and I have found grace in Your sight, except You go with us? So we shall be separate, Your people and I, from all the people who are upon the face of the earth.”

 

A Peculiar Treasure:

 

Exodus 19:5:

“Now, therefore, if you will indeed obey My voice and keep My covenant, then you shall be a special treasure to Me above all people; for all the earth is Mine.”

 

God’s Inheritance:

 

1 Kings 8:53:

“For You separated them from among all the peoples of the earth to be Your inheritance, as You spoke by Your servant Moses, when You brought our fathers out of Egypt, O Lord God.”

 

Set Apart for Himself:

 

Psalm 135:4:

“For the Lord has chosen Jacob for Himself, Israel for His special treasure.”

 

God’s Chosen People:

 

Isaiah 41:8–9:

“But you, Israel, are My servant, Jacob whom I have chosen, the descendants of Abraham My friend. You whom I have taken from the ends of the earth, and called from its farthest regions, and said to you, ‘You are My servant; I have chosen you and have not cast you away.'”

 

These verses clearly show the special relationship and separation of Israel as a chosen people of God. 

 

To truly understand the Bible, one must know these truths. We must know and understand that scripture is a progressive revelation. One must identify the differences between law and grace, Israel and the body of Christ, which is His church, and Peter and Paul.

 

Ten Bible Verses that Delineate the Foreknowledge of God

Ten Bible Verses that Delineate the Foreknowledge of God

Foreknowledge is an attribute of God. It is one of the aspects of God’s omniscience, which means God’s all-encompassing and perfect knowledge. Foreknowledge specifically refers to God’s knowledge of events, choices, and outcomes before they occur in the course of human history.

 

This attribute underscores the fact that God, being outside the constraints of time, possesses a complete understanding of the past, present, and future. It is not limited to mere awareness but includes an intimate knowledge that allows God to see and comprehend the intricate details of every moment in time.

 

As an attribute, foreknowledge showcases the depth and perfection of God’s understanding, emphasizing His control and authority over the unfolding of human history.

 

Here are 10 Bible verses that delineate the sovereignty of God as exemplified in His foreknowledge.

 

1. Romans 8:29

For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren.”

 

2. 1 Peter 1:2

“Elect according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, in sanctification of the Spirit, for obedience and sprinkling of the blood of Jesus Christ: Grace to you and peace be multiplied.”

 

3. Acts 2:23

“Him, being delivered by the determined purpose and foreknowledge of God, you have taken by lawless hands, have crucified, and put to death.”

 

4. Isaiah 46:10

“Declaring the end from the beginning and from ancient times things that are not yet done, saying, ‘My counsel shall stand, and I will do all My pleasure.'”

 

5. Psalm 139:16

“Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed. And in Your book, they all were written, the days fashioned for me, when as yet there were none of them.”

 

6. Jeremiah 1:5

“Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; before you were born, I sanctified you; I ordained you a prophet to the nations.”

 

7. Ephesians 1:4-5

“Just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before Him in love, having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will.”

 

8. 2 Timothy 1:9

“who has saved us and called us with a holy calling, not according to our works, but according to His own purpose and grace which was given to us in Christ Jesus before time began.”

 

9. Amos 3:7

“Surely the Lord God does nothing, unless He reveals His secret to His servants the prophets.”

 

10. Matthew 10:30

“But the very hairs of your head are all numbered.”

 

 

Foreknowledge, Free Will, and the Assurance of Election

Foreknowledge, Free Will, and the Assurance of Election

The theological debate between God’s sovereignty and mankind’s free will has been a contentious topic since the apostle Paul came on the scene. Examining the truth and reality of God’s foreknowledge, we begin to uncover the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God in His “choosing” the elect.

 

…whosoever will… + …He has chosen us…

 

God’s Unwavering Sovereignty and Foreknowledge

 

The book of Romans illuminates the depth of God’s sovereignty and foreknowledge in Romans 8:29: “For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren.”

 

Here, the Apostle Paul emphasizes the direct connection between God’s foreknowledge and the predestination of those who respond to the gospel. God’s choice is not arbitrary but a purposeful selection rooted in His sovereignty, omniscience, and foreknowledge. In other words, God, in His foreknowledge, already knows who will believe the gospel and who will reject it.

 

Human Choice and Free Will

 

Even as God’s sovereignty stands unwavering, the Bible upholds the reality of human free will. Joshua 24:15 unequivocally declares, “And if it seems evil to you to serve the Lord, choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the river or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”

 

This verse underscores the inherent capacity for choice granted to humanity by God. God’s choosing aligns with the acknowledgment of personal responsibility and the significance of the individual’s faith in the gospel or rejection of the truth in “unbelief.”  No one seeks after God, but all mankind has been given enough light to know God and escape condemnation (read Romans 1 and John 1:9; Romans 1:20).

 

Chosen by God Through Divine Foreknowledge

 

The divine choice, revealed in Ephesians 1:4-5, takes on a profound clarity: “just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before Him in love, having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will.”

 

God’s choosing is intentional and absolute, and it is made clear that He chooses those because of His foreknowledge. This “choosing” is not subject to chance or human merit but is a testament to God’s sovereignty, power, and omniscience—the already knowing of those who will respond to the gospel with authentic faith. On the other hand, those who choose to reject the gospel in unbelief seal their destination in the lake of fire.

 

A Definitive Conclusion

 

When studying the topic of God’s “choosing,” scripture reveals God’s foreknowledge aligns seamlessly with His sovereign will, and human free will exists within the bounds of His divine order. As we examine God’s foreknowledge, we do so with the assurance that God’s choice is not random but a purposeful, deliberate selection based on His foreknowledge of hearts that surrender to Him by believing the gospel alone by faith alone.

 

‘Oh, the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable are His judgments and His ways past finding out!’

Romans 11:33